"You can't see me because I'm on my way to see you." Jiang Han, the scumbag in the well-known Taiwanese drama "The Beginning of the Lights", is constantly wandering between Su's mother and Rose's mother, first falling in love with Rose's mother, Later, he dumped her, started to fall in love with Su's mother, and finally dumped Su, and left a sentence "If I really want to settle with someone, I will choose Rose." What kind of mentality does Jiang Han hold?
Have you ever met a partner like Jiang Han? "I just can't settle down", this is what Jiang Han always says. Why are some people just unable to settle down? Such a person is likely to be an escape from attachment in attachment theory. Inability to escape attachment with wedding photo retouching services long-term intimacy Although not all escape from attachment cannot be settled with people for a long time; but some people who escape attachment are indeed difficult to settle down with others. If they didn't flirt with people on the dating app,
until they were so ambiguous that they were about to be together, they suddenly disappeared from the world and could never find this person again; or like Jiang Han, Rose never knew when he would meet. He didn't even know where he lived. He always left a little affection everywhere, but he never planned to be in a long-term relationship. For escaping attachment, what they fear most is staying close to others for a long time. Being close to others will cause them to feel insecure, and their distrust of feelings